Lacey Turner didn’t think she’d have a baby after suffering two miscarriages.
The ‘EastEnders’ star – who welcomed daughter Dusty into the world with her husband Matt Kay in July last year – didn’t let herself "get excited" until later in her pregnancy because she was "so scared" of losing another baby.
Appearing on ITV’s ‘Loose Women’ on Thursday (27.02.20), she said: "I didn’t get excited until I was about 20, 25 weeks… I was so scared. Until you can feel kicking, you don’t actually know anything is there…
"Because I thought this might not work, I just became really laid back about the whole thing. It is what it is…
"I just felt numb to the whole thing, so anything that was happening in there, I was just, ‘Oh that’s great’. But not how you should feel."
The 31-year-old actress admitted she was putting "so much pressure" on herself after her miscarriages, and she had almost given up hope on falling pregnant for a third time.
She added: "It took us ages to get pregnant, I put so much pressure on myself to fall pregnant that actually it wasn’t happening. It got to the point where I said to Matt, ‘Just forget it, we’ll get a puppy’.
"It’s not the same, but… As soon as said that, we fell pregnant. I remember I was in the bath and Matt said ‘Oh, it says pregnant’. I said, ‘Well don’t get excited’.
"I felt horrible that I wouldn’t let him get excited about it, and I ignored it until I was 14 weeks. I honestly ignored it, I carried on, I carried on eating chocolate yogurts and all the things you shouldn’t eat."
Lacey – who has played Stacey Fowler on the BBC soap since 2004, and is currently on maternity leave – candidly admitted while she knows why she reacted in that way, part of her wished she’d enjoyed being pregnant more.
She explained: "A little bit. I understand why I dealt with it in that way, but it would’ve been nice if I could allow us to be more excited… You just protect yourself a bit."
Lacey previously revealed she and her husband decided on their daughter’s name after looking online, and she has described Dusty as their "little miracle".
She said: "It wasn’t on our original list but we did an internet search for ‘pretty girls’ names’ and we both said it at the same time. Dusty’s our little miracle – we call her special K.
"You hear so many horror stories about labour but I feel lucky to be able to say I had a really lovely time."
Lacey Turner didn’t expect to have baby after two miscarriages
